The progress of the Conversion Therapy legislation in New Zealand is looking good.
But we need input from you!
The problem is that “Conversion Therapy” has been presented as something extreme. Recent movies and docos have painted some grim pictures, and rightly so!
But the reality is far more subtle and insidious, and we know there are thousands out there who are unaware that they’ve been subject to religious practices and beliefs that are just as harmful as the full on stuff we’ve seen. Part of this effort involves shifting the term “Conversion Therapy” to SOGICE (Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Change Efforts) as it more accurately describes the the scope of the issue.
Silent Gays will be working with SOGICE survivors and Brave to host some safe, private zoom gatherings to share experiences, learn about the advocacy space, and talk about support.
The first step is presenting three specific questions to help you understand the scope of the practices. These are:
- Have you been part of a faith community where you were told that you were broken, disordered or in need of healing because of your gender or sexual identity?
- Have you been offered prayer, counselling, pastoral care or rituals which seek to change or suppress your sexual or gender identity?
- Have you been part of a formal or informal faith-based program which tried to engage the ‘reasons’ for your gay, bi, lesbian, trans, queer or ace identity or ‘support’ you to live as a straight, cisgender person?
You’ll notice that we aren’t simply asking if you’ve been through some form of conversion therapy. This is simply because most people just don’t think in those terms.
We are looking at ways to ask these questions of the broader community, but I’m putting this out now for your consideration, and by all means, feel free to prepare as detailed a response as you like, or just sit with the idea for now.
There is no pressure, and all information is strictly confidential.
email info@silentgays.com
U was brought up fundamental catholic of course I was.
Sadly that’s all to common.
How has it affected you over the years? (no pressure to answer that).
If you feel like a private conversation you can email me jim@silentgays.com
Hi I’m a trans woman who underwent alot of the subtle insidious anti LGBTQ indoctrination in my family’s churches. Until finally I received the much more grim and blunt GCT at wanganui collegiate school new Zealand (against my parents wishes). I have since started writing poetry about the religious abuse I grew up with and would be happy to preform one of these pieces to assist with your efforts to bring closure to abused LGBTQ people and awareness to the people who need to know how severe the problem is.