The sin dilemma

I’d like to share this article because it presents an interesting dilemma. Much if the church has decided to embrace LGBT people and provide a safe and loving community for them. BUT, they still have the underlying premise that its a “sin”. The only difference is they don’t stress about sin, and can embrace each […]


One of the biggest problems I’m finding is the lack of knowledge around the nature of sexuality and gender. Contrary to popular belief, its not a simple male/female binary we are dealing with. Sexuality and gender are very different things, and there is a wealth of information on this. Here’s a quick overview. No two […]

No more stuffing around!

Over the last few years I’ve been through the process of completely re-assessing life in every way – from my sexual identity as a gay man to the very foundations of my spirituality. Part of this process has been writing my story in the book “It’s Life Jim..” (which I’m sure you’ve all read!). The […]

Healing, Forgiving and Overcoming Abuse

Today’s blog is a short article by Nancy Richards.   The soul cannot forgive until it is restored to wholeness and health. In the absence of love—how can one forgive? With an abundance of love, starting with one’s self, forgiveness becomes a viable opportunity. At some point in every abuse survivor’s healing journey, he or […]

Honesty: The Final Frontier

This is a quote from Ken Dahl, check out his books, highly recommended! We don’t tend to seriously investigate (or study) the things that we don’t want to know, and don’t want to be true. In fact, most people surround themselves with people who give them the permission to stay right where they are. It […]

Kicking off!

OK, I’d better get into the swing of blogging! I’m so used to Facebook, I forget that there are a lot of you out there who prefer following blogs instead. Facebook can be a bit of a minefield! First up, things are going well! We made around $1200 from our local fund-raiser. Its a great […]


Some simple stats about suicide. This is a serious issue, and one of the main reason’s Silent Gays exists.


Welcome to the new Silent Gays Blog page. Instead of the Facebook feed, we’ve decided to create a dedicated blog, providing a broad range of articles, resources, ideas etc that are more accessible to a much broader audience rather than just social media. Comments will be available for a trial period. They tend to get […]